Emotional vampires, in other words, toxic people, use psychological games in order to reach us psychologically while making us feel guilty. They want to take all our energy and get all our attention without offering anything in return. That said, some people attract them more than others because they have traits that they look for. The latter are excessively gentle and caring, and may be emotionally weak, unable to refuse the demands of these emotional vampires.
Astrology plays a role in the waves we emit. These in turn attract a certain type of people. However, whatever the purpose of the relationship you maintain with others, it must be healthy. Otherwise, you will spend your positive energy on people who will always ask for more. Indeed, even before starting your day, you will already be emotionally exhausted. Before discovering which signs of the zodiac attract them, learn to recognize them!
How to recognize toxic people ?
When you appreciate a person, it is difficult for you to realize that it is toxic. That said, it is necessary to learn to identify them so that you are surrounded by positive people only and you move forward optimistically. Here is a list of the characteristics of the people you should avoid.
- They are never wrong
- They often criticize you
- They are intrusive
- They manipulate you
- They do not keep their promises
Now that you are able to recognize them, the decision to keep them in your life is yours!
What signs of the zodiac attract them?
These natives mainly attract the manipulators because they are nice and harmless. Their degree of compassion and empathy brings in their lives the profiteers and even the narcissistic perverts. They have great ability to listen and put themselves in the shoes of others, to the point of absorbing all their negative energy. In addition, these people are determined, and do their utmost to achieve their goals. This aspect makes them easily attainable.
The natives of this sign are perfectionists, and extremely attentive. They are generally discreet and persevering. Therefore, they attract the dominators. Because of their sympathy and kindness, emotional vampires try to take control of their lives and abuse their goodness.
People whose astrological sign is Cancer, are able to offer an unlimited dose of love. Extremely respectful and attentive, they attract the toxic people who need to be constantly mothering.
Sagittarians are sociable and extroverted. They have a large circle of friends and are often well surrounded. They are therefore the ideal prey for the emotional vampires that they use as a way to expand their social circle, and thus gain more attention and affection.
These natives are active people, ready to do anything to protect those around them. As a result, their desire to satisfy others’ desires and their boundless energy will tend to attract “adult children”.
The foundations of a healthy relationship
In order to build a healthy relationship, there are certain principles to establish. First, respect the other person, just as you deserve to be respected in return. Then, be yourself, express your feelings as much as you listen to those of others; it goes both ways. Support each other for the best as well as the worst, and this, in friendship or in romantic relationships. And finally, do not belittle anyone, quite the contrary, express your admiration for the prowess achieved by others and encourage them in this direction.